Sunday Lesson: How To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex1. Conne..

Sunday Lesson: How To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex

1. Connect with her emotionally. Do something sweet and kind for her. Plan a romantic date, compliment her, and let her know how important and special she is to you and what she means to you! And of course let her know how hot and sexy she is which is something that often gets taken away from us when we are given garments.

Yes, some of you may find garments sexy but mentally for women they are far from it.

Now this alone won’t have her dropping her panties or garment bottoms, so please continue reading 😅

2. Be her Helpmeet_ before asking her to help you with your meat.

Take on household responsibilities. The goal here is to remove the stress and overwhelm your wife encounters on a day to day basis.

Trust me! No matter how good the dick if the kitchen isn’t clean or the kids aren’t taken care of, I will be thinking about them.

Katy Perry recently said if her man washes the dishes at night he deserves a blow job! 

3. This next one is tricky, but convey to her that sex is more than just physical intimacy. For men it’s an emotional connection and it has meaning.

Do not present this information in a whiney, complaining or angry tone. Be genuine and loving like your baring a testimony of how important the feelings you have when having sex with your eternal spouse.

Don’t bring this up before sex because it will ruin your chances and create dutiful sex and no one really wants that. Bring it up after sex letting her know how special the moment was and then repeat steps 1 and 2!

4. Last bit of advice! She cums first or she cums last but she needs to cum. Either by your doing her a sexy toy!

Don’t make sex all about you.

Quick warning, don’t tell her she has to cum because that will add pressure to her mentally making it harder to cum. And don’t tell her you will make her cum because again pressure!

Visit an adult shop together and find a sex toy you want to try out together. Trust me it will take multiple toys to find the right one but it’s a good investment and using a toy isn’t anything to be ashamed of, some of us don’t need extra stimulation but a lot of us do because a lot of women never learned to masturbate or understand their own bodies so it makes sex unenjoyable or difficult. Learning to orgasm takes time. Some women are blessed with that gift others are not.

By the way there are some couples where the woman is the one who has to ask for sex because the husband has a low drive or very repressed sexually. These 4 steps can also work for you too.

Let me know your thoughts and I will share one of these every week!

Olivia 💋

P.S. Javi helped with this because he is truly the expert and the one who unlocked the freak that I am today! 😈