When life gives you lemons... squeeze em until they jizz like juice. Or something like that. Hubs took all that frustration I had built up about the canceled date and fucked me back into my body. He said he knew how much i was looking forward to it and whispered "I am so sorry your bot toy wasn't able to pump this sweet pussy today" hee hee... and when i tell you I came as soon as he said "sweet pussy" fuck! i know lots of people who pretend to swing and think its a competition, but that is so far from it! It's about knowing your mate's pleasure points and kinks and allowing them the freedom to explore it.