🔥 Welcome to the World of Sammy Sinsss 🔥 I wanted to reintr..

🔥 Welcome to the World of Sammy Sinsss 🔥

I wanted to reintroduce myself to let my subscribers know more about me and my journey after completing my first full year on OnlyFans !

My name is Sammy (yes, that’s my actual name !) and I’m a non-binary Korean American artist born and raised in New York. I’m a Pisces, double Taurus, and I see myself as quite fluid and open-minded, reflected by my pronouns which are they/them, and how fluidly verse I am in the bedroom.

I started OnlyFans in Dec 2020 after debating for months if I should finally enter the sex media industry publicly after being a full service sex worker privately for years. After cycling through several unfulfilling low-paying part-time jobs and the financial hardship brought on by the covid-19 pandemic, OnlyFans seemed like an attractive opportunity to find financial security. Engaging with an online audience and community was already part of my practice with the platform I had cultivated for years on Instagram account @sammykims. But after facing incessant censorship on the platform for sharing sexually liberated content and images about my experiences as a sex worker, I was eventually banned from the platform for pushing the boundaries of their user guidelines. I then refocused my energy to cultivating the world of Sammy Sinsss to make a new name for myself online, provide for myself financially, and have really hot, authentic sex. 😈

Starting OnlyFans has been a meaningful experience for me as a way to create more authentic representations of sex as a queer non-binary Korean-American that I never saw as a horny kid growing up. Back then, I only ever jerked off to the plethora of online porn saturated with massive muscled white gays and daddies, and it made me internalize how undesirable I felt as a scrawny, average, ugly, effeminate Asian guy that just wanted to have the hot sex I saw guys that were much hotter than me were having. I hardly ever watched videos of guys with darker skin tones, performers of color, or Asian guys. It took me years into my 20s to decolonize my own dating preferences and learn to find myself desirable, beautiful, and sexy.

My experiences as a sex worker has played its part in making me feel sexually powerful and liberated at times. But sometimes, it’s also reinforced feelings of objectification, fetishization, and disposability. But even with all the negatives, I have chosen to pursue this work to create positive changes around the stigmatization and values within our paradoxically sex-driven yet sex-taboo society. I want to transform the struggles I’ve faced to create a safer, healthier, and more liberated sexual experience for us all, where we can feel connected to ourselves and one another.

One year into doing OnlyFans has taught me a lot about my abilities, my strengths, how hard I need to work to create a better future for myself and my world. I’m incredibly proud to have amassed 150k followers on Twitter, and counting. I’m proud to be able to provide for myself financially better than I ever have. I’m grateful for all the people I’ve worked with and connected with through this experience.

I’m also proud that going into this career, I’ve been able to make it this far with only working on screen with other Asian performers and performers of color ! I intentionally started OnlyFans with the goal of working with performers of color to see if it’s possible to be successful without having myself portrayed at the pleasure of white men. This isn’t because I won’t have sex with white men, but because there’s already a plethora of media and porn that negatively portrays Asian people as subservient and for the pleasure of cis white men that I do not want to contribute to. Because being inundated with that limited representation growing up damaged my sense of self worth and ability to see what was possible for myself, and I want to create the diverse media I wish I had growing up.

Ultimately, I see my duty as a sex worker as centering pleasure in sex. I mean, isn’t that what sex is all about ? I want to center my own pleasure, not perform an idea of what we’re conditioned to think is hot and desirable. I want to create a space that is rid of ego, judgement, shame, selfishness. I want us to be able to ask for what we want in these vulnerable moments where we’re naked, and be able to get it. I want to feel fulfilled in my sex life, and my life in general. And that’s why I do what I do.

So thank you for being a part of my journey. I wouldn’t have the success and joy that I do without you ! <3

With love 💖

Sammy