#ExploringSexualityFirst Steps into Anal Sex: Relax, Lubrica..

#ExploringSexuality

First Steps into Anal Sex: Relax, Lubricate, and Explore with Confidence!

You can stimulate alone 👋🏼 or in a couple 🤜🏽🤛🏽 It is BETTER if you Start Alone 💯, so you know which areas stimulate you the most and how you like to communicate it to your sexual partner. At this point, communication is very important‼️

1️⃣ Breathing control: Breathing is important to start to RELAX. Inhale and contract for 5 seconds, then exhale and release/relax the area in 5 seconds (do not push). In this way, you will actively contract and relax the anus. After you practice this several times you will be able to master anal relaxation whenever you want!

2️⃣ The use of LUBRICANT 💧 We must cover with lubricant all the perianal area and the toy we will introduce! We recommend water-based lubricant or specific for anal sex. Our anus does not lubricate by itself, so if we use generously the lubricant we could prevent fissures inside the anus, which could cause pain and infection! We don't want that! 🙃

3️⃣ Practice with your fingers ✋🏼 and get familiar with the sensation of stimulating yourself there! Make sure your nails are short and rounded. If you're repulsed by dirt or prefer the surface to feel more uniform, cover your finger with a latex condom or thimble. Lubricate the entire length of your index or middle finger. Start by touching the perianal area and the edges of the anus. Smile, breathe and relax! 🙌🏼

⚠️ Spoiler alert! If the anus contracts, take a few seconds to relax it. Move slowly with the second phalanx, when you feel ready insert the whole finger and stay there for a few seconds, without moving it. When you feel comfortable with the sensation, you can introduce more fingers or play with a toy

4️⃣ Use toys 🪄 Toys with stopper, let's avoid a bad experience because the ass tends to suck 😲✨The anal plug✨ is a good toy to initiate you, recommended silicone and in the form of a cone. When you have the toy in, you can stay with the toy and change positions to familiarize yourself with the sensation. To remove it, grasp the top and relax. You can make a gentle expulsion movement to help pull it out.

5️⃣ Boosting pleasure: Masturbating, touching your erogenous zones, and allowing yourself to fantasize during anal play can significantly enhance arousal. This helps your body associate these new sensations with pleasure, making the experience more natural and enjoyable.

6️⃣ Patience and respect for your own time: Everyone is different, and it's perfectly normal for it to take time to feel fully comfortable with new experiences. Focus on the idea that this is a process of discovery, and it’s completely okay if it's not something you enjoy. The most important is listening to your body and exploring at your own pace.

7️⃣ Cleaning and hygiene: Anal shower, if that makes you feel more comfortable. Use a pipette and fill it with warm water. Put lubricant on the tip of the pipette to insert. The water will remove stool from the walls. Usually, 3 rinses are enough for effective cleaning. In our experience, it's best to do this at least one hour before the sexual encounter to allow time for the water to fully drain. It is recommended not to use more than 2 times per week so as not to alter the intestinal flora.

Exploring new aspects of your sexuality isn’t just about technique—it’s about self-awareness, curiosity, and giving yourself the space to discover what brings you pleasure. The journey itself is as meaningful as the destination. Every sensation, every moment of hesitation, and every breakthrough teaches you something new about your body and desires.

With love,
Kate