BLOG - Don't Fall For The Illusion Of Porn (3-23-21): There..

BLOG - Don't Fall For The Illusion Of Porn (3-23-21): There she is, sitting there, her face in awe as she holds this throbbing piece of meat in her small hands. Her fingertips can wave at each other because they can't connect due to his sheer girth, she feels him throbbing in her hands and her face is full of desire. She moans her mouth stretches over this girth, she feels his dick pushing out her jaw as she tries to get as much as she can into her throat. She finally quits, his penis is too large for her small mouth, she's convinced that she's done nothing more than making him more excited, and even though she could barely take him. His thick meat appears to be even bigger now as he watches her worship his meat, she compares it to her forearm and it's just as big, if not bigger. She looks at the cameraman as she tries to cram the head of his huge dick into her, he's stretching her wider and wider. She moans in pleasure, the moans become screams of erotic ecstasy as she feels him filling her. She tells him, "oh fuck you're too big." He bends down towards her ear, she feels him pushing deeper inside of her, just when she thinks he's far enough he keeps going. He gets closer to her ear and whispers, " I'm only halfway in." I wanted to flex my writing skills a little bit because we've all seen a porn video that was exactly like this. Some guy whips out a dick that looks like it's fatter than a can of Bang Energy and longer than a ruler. The girl freaks out and acts like it's the best thing she's ever seen. And so on, and so forth. Porn and PE can be a slippery slope, especially when you're comparing yourself to the person that you're watching. And you're judging her reaction based on your own experiences or lack thereof with a sexual partner. PE should be something you want to do for your own pleasure and amusement, not something that you think that you have to do. There's a huge difference between the two phrases; 'want to do', and 'have to do'. When you want to do something you find it fun, it's stress-free, self-fulfilling, and you don't mind taking your time to complete the tasks at hand no matter how long it takes. PE should be seen as nothing more than a realistic goal to achieve a certain look, size, or even feeling. I do PE because I enjoy watching my dick grow, feeling its thickness, and the feeling of it being heavy after a good session. And the cherry on top of all of that is I get to watch and feel my wife struggle to take my dick. She's already tight, to begin with, in fact, if we don't have sex at least one time in a two-week period. We have to use so much lube just to even get things started. But that's how she's always been no matter how big her ex's were. Now, many of you read that and thought that was a humblebrag, and it's far from it in fact. It's very easy to take my experience and growth and discard everything because I see some guy in the locker room that makes me look like I have a tictac for a dick. And you know what? There's some other guy that makes him look like a pinky finger in comparison. And the cycle repeats itself until you get to the guy that's so big that he literally has a medical birth defect that makes sex basically impossible for him. My point is, stop comparing yourself to other people. Whether that's dick size, house size, their car, or their bank account. My fellow Americans will know that most citizens of this country have an average of $16,000 of miscellaneous credit card debt. They have a house they can barely afford and a luxury car that's worth sixty percent of what they bought it for last year with payments for eighty-four months. Comparing yourself to others will lead you on a journey of misery very quickly because guess what? Someone is always going to be bigger, thicker, faster, stronger, richer, better looking, and smarter than you. That's life, it's human competition, and it's how things are supposed to be. The person on top isn't looking down on the people below him. He's looking down at the people who are climbing up his mountain to take his place. When you compare yourself to others, no matter what you achieve will be good enough for you. That's when you go from, 'wanting to do PE' to feeling like you 'have to do PE,' and that's a dangerous mindset. It makes you impatient, impractical, and it can make you obsessed with it which will result in a toxic mindset. I like to talk about the gym and bodybuilders all the time because they're the perfect analogy for PE. We've all seen some stacked beefcake that looks like he inhales steroids and exhales pure testosterone bench pressing five hundred pounds as if it's a sack of potatoes. You become fixated on this beastly man, you might try and ignore him, but when he's walking around the gym you still notice him. The same thing applies to porn. Believe it or not, that very person that made your jaw drop to the floor might look in the mirror and see a weakling whose shoulders could use some work. Meanwhile, you're looking at him like he's fallen from the heavens of Olympus. Your sexual partner(s) will be the best determining factor to your size. Trust me, they notice your gains well before you do because they're feeling them. If you feel that PE is something you have to do, then you need to take a step back and relax. There is nothing wrong with wanting to achieve a higher level of self-improvement or success. But know your limits, set realistic goals, and make sure you're doing PE for yourself. And not because a few porn videos told you that ten inches are what makes you a real man. I can guarantee you that men are the only ones that truly give a shit with what number their dick lines up to next to a ruler. Do you know what ten inches will get you during sex? Unless it's anal it's not going to fit, especially with a woman. Smack her cerviix a few times and I bet you she will make you put less in as sex continues on. Ask yourself why you set your goal to the numeric value you've given it. If it's because you feel it would be cool and fun to whip out a seven incher, then great let's work on that. If it's because you feel like that's the only size you can be at to be happy, then it's time for some self revaluation. Just my two cents.