So aftercare! So I’ve been in the scene for a while now (y..
Added 2022-12-28 20:21:57 +0000 UTCSo aftercare! So I’ve been in the scene for a while now (yes 15years 😱😱 I’m getting old) and I feel like there is a real issue with some of the basics, not so long ago I posted about DOM Drop yes it’s a real thing! But I’ve had a few so called Doms ask me about aftercare and how to do it properly… Honest truth there is no right answer (scary stuff) I can speak from having subs to also doing it as one off professional bookings. The answer is ask the person you’re playing with what they need from you after a scene. Yes as simple as that… basic communication! Even if you are doing it professionally that person has trusted you to inflict pain pleasure and overload them into a happy blissful place but the drop (rare some don’t drop) will happen it could be during a scene straight after, minutes hours days there is no time frame. However you can do common practices set in place to help with that situation, be readily available for support. Cuddling, kissing, blankets, pillows, cuddly toys, sweets and fizzy drinks, junk foods, favourite music film and even smell can be all pre arranged for aftercare. They may need space but still communication by text phone call to help get them through it. Everyone is unique and everyone’s aftercare should be tailored made for them and them only… communicate before any play is even discussed what it will entail. If you can’t provide the aftercare that person needs you have no right in playing with them… Aftercare is important Sub drop is important Dom drop is important Understand it and Acknowledge it 🖤🧡🖤 Creator me and @julie_bliss1
