Women are more aroused by words and touch than by what they see. Although the human species generally depends heavily on sight, and although women are also capable of being aroused by what they see, this is more common with men. With men, itβs as if the optic nerve is directly connected to the penis. Male fantasies, for example, include more visual content than female fantasies, and men tend more to focus on minute details of their fantasized partnerβs physical appearance. So use words and gestures if you want to arouse your partner!